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Dr. Orloff’s Tips for A Positive Attitude

Dr. Orloff - Thursday, February 04, 2010
Dr. Orloff’s Tips for A Positive Attitude

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From Positive Energy by Judith Orloff MD”

As a physician in practice for over twenty years, I know that your beliefs set the tone for health and healing. Positive attitudes accentuate wellness, negative attitudes impair it. Our beliefs trigger biochemical responses. No organ system is apart from our thoughts. Beliefs set a tone for certain health realities to occur. In “Positive Energy” I discuss 5 tips for keeping a positive attitude.

The first is, try to focus on what’s good in the ‘Now” rather than catastrophizing about what danger lurks in the future. Negative fear based thoughts increase the stress hormones in your body, and stop the blissful flow of endorphins, our brain’s natural pain reducing neurochemicals.’

The second is to take a few minutes to meditate each day on a positive image: a waterfall, sunset, the night sky, a child’s face. This calms your physiological system and allows you to take a mini break from the stressors of the day.

The third, is to practice positive self-talk. This is a form of affirmation that will neutralize the tendency to focus on what is negative. For instance, if you are tired tell yourself, “Honey, it’s okay to take a rest” instead of beating yourself up over not being a super person who goes nonstop. Or “you’ve done a great job” when you know you’ve done your best in a work situation or in the process of healing from an illness. This emphasis on what you’ve done well will help keep your body calm and healthy.

The fourth is to be grateful for what is working in your life rather than obsessing on what has gone wrong—always focus on the love you have and know the enormous value of this.

The fifth tip is to practice anonymous acts of service whenever you are feeling unhappy or in a bad mood. Reaching out to help others in a small way—for instance, helping someone across the street, letting someone in front of you in traffic, being emotionally supportive of a friend—serves to open your heart and generate positive energy so you feel better and so does someone else.

Having a positive attitude is something that you practice over time. The more you get in the habit of doing it, the more successful you will be. A positive attitude is something you develop over time. It doesn’t mean being Pollyannaish or saccharine. It is being able to find the best in things, and in yourself. We may not be able to control all the events of our lives, but we can control our attitude.


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Sarah commented on 05-Feb-2010 01:12 PM
Thank you for championing a better way of living for those of us who are introverted or highly sensitive.
Ashton Laurent commented on 16-Feb-2010 08:30 AM
I'd like to add one suggestion to these wonderful principles. Remember to smile. Smile with your whole face. Lifting your face helps your whole mental attitude. You benefit and all the people who see you also benefit.
Betsy Henry, zen-mama.com commented on 18-Feb-2010 09:27 PM
Judith, I so believe this! I just read it out loud to my husband and son. I have repeated some of your thoughts in several of my blogs. Would you ever consider be a guest blogger? It could help your book, too! I'm looking forward to looking to reading through the rest of your blog! By the way...thanks for the twitter follow!
Kim commented on 22-Feb-2010 11:25 AM
I recently discovered your work. It has been such a relief for me to know that it is okay to feel this way and that I can do something about it! I will put these principles up on my wall as a reminder to follow them everyday.
Wildove commented on 01-Mar-2010 03:20 PM
Dr. Orloff, Everything I read from your excerpts/promotions/posts I find too wonderful. I mention this because I have been writing my own 'how to connect between the "two worlds", only mine is done in Dreamtime format. I have been doing this as a prayer/thought extension. I made the decision NOT to read anyone else's books on the subject until my own book is done. IT is ESSENTIAL to comment about your work and to tell all my friends to come to your site, buy your books and "KEEP THE WIDSOM FIRE BURNING. So I will do that! Aho! Thank you for doing what you do!
Anonymous commented on 07-Mar-2010 02:42 PM
Polly Anna has gotten a bad rap for some reason. I've been criticized for being too much like her. I watched the movie recently and am now very proud of being called Polly Anna. Not sure why people think poorly of a little girl who turns everything around to see the positive. A light-hearted person that has a profound positive impact on many people around her. Sounds pretty good to me!

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Do You Have Intuition?

Dr. Orloff - Tuesday, February 02, 2010
Do You Have Intuition

Dear Friends:


I am excited that a new updated edition of Second Sight is about to be released. Intuitive medicine has progressed so far in the last decade and I am honored to be a part of that progress. I pride myself in being a bridge between traditional medicine and intuition. I hope the book inspires you to trust your inner voice always!


Here is an excerpt from the new edition of Second Sight that has a new introduction by me and contains other surprises!.


"I'm a psychiatrist and intuitive in Los Angeles. What I do isn't my job. It's my life's passion. With patients and in workshops, I listen with my intellect and my intuition, a potent inner wisdom that goes beyond the literal. I experience it as a flash of insight, a gut feeling, a hunch, a dream. By blending intuition with orthodox medical knowledge I can offer my patients the best of both worlds. Now, listening to intuition is sacred to me, but learning to trust it has taken years. I've described the details in my memoir Second Sight which is meant to assure anyone whoever thought they were weird or crazy for having intuitive experiences, that they are not!"


Click on link to read complete excerpt to learn if you have intuition.


Purchase Second Sight at Amazon.com
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Mary Jane Hurley Brant commented on 25-Feb-2010 07:14 PM
Dear Dr. Orloff,

I don't normally happen upon a story where a psychiatrist is not only open and authentic but who also had a "Grandpop." That's what I called mine. I'm also from the Philly area - grew up in Collingswood, NJ and have a private practice in Bryn Mawr, PA just across the Ben Franklin.

My intuition has been my companion since the 7th grade when my father died. I respect it and live by it. I'm so delighted to have found you tonight through an intuitive road to wholeness thanks to a mutual FB friend.

I look forward to reading your book. God bless your work and your mission.

Mary Jane Hurley Brant, M.S., CGP
Marie Lanier, MSW commented on 03-Mar-2010 02:35 AM
I had a quiet, but wonderful experience of tip #5: "to practice anonymous acts of service whenever you are feeling unhappy or in a bad mood." It was the day after Christmas; my two boys were age 5 and 2, and I was feeling blue and useless; wrapped in an endless cycle of diapers, cleaning, laundry, dishes, etc. So we went for a neighborhood walk with a "slight" heaviness in my heart, wishing for the days when I was a "working" social worker; contributing in a more "meaningful" way. An elderly man walked toward us, a bit disheveled which made me wonder if he was homeless. He stopped and asked me if he could have some of our water, which was in the stroller cup holder. "Well, er..um"...I said quietly,"that's my son's water..." But in almost the same moment, I remembered that Jesus had once said, "Whatever you do to the least of these, that you do unto me," (Matthew ch. 25) So I offered him the water, and listened to the little voice inside of me to ask how he was. He said he was very tired, reached in his pocket and pulled out a 3x5 card containing his name and some phone numbers to call in case he got "lost." Bing! The bell rang and I realized he had memory problems (good thing I specialized in serving the elderly in my social work training -- duh!) So I called the first number and it was the man's pastor and friend. He was thrilled that the man had been "found" and informed me that a group from his church were praying for him within the last 2-3 hours in which he had walked away from his home. So I brought him to my house, gave him some more to drink, and drove him home to a very grateful caregiver. The obvious lesson is as you said, Dr. Orloff, to reach outside of ourselves in small ways and make a practice of it. It was a moment of purpose which I almost missed had I not talked to myself in a a positive way and been willing to step outside of myself.
J commented on 08-Mar-2010 10:46 AM
I wish I'd had a book like this while growing up. As a child, I had strong intuitive experiences but was punished for them, told constantly I was a liar, or possessed, or doing something bad. I was threatened, punished and mocked by my family, even after time and again what I said came true. I learned to hide my reality from others. The gifts receded during high school and college but came back very strongly when I began meditation practices in my early 20's. I was totally unprepared for it and the therapists I consulted were convinced I was having some kind of breakdown. It was only by following my intuition and stopping meditation for a few years that I was able to understand what was happening, and I am gradually learning through trial and error how to control my gifts so that they don't overwhelm me. They can. I wish there was some place to go or person near me to consult for training as you had at UCLA. Thank you for a great book. It was reassuring to know that others have the same experiences and it can be a 'normal' part of one's life, whatever life holds for you!
Renee Pisarz commented on 07-Apr-2010 12:51 AM
I developed my second sight, after my son Stephen, at the age of 18 transitioned to the spiritual realm. I have been told this was a kundalini awakening. All my chakras (energy centers) opened. I healed, because I embraced the unknown and surrendered. I am multi-dimentional, and use my aura to see into other dimensions. I feel and see subtle energy. I know my son continues. This has been a blessing, and a gift from God. I wrote a mini book, titled Angel 54 A Mother's Sacred Journey from Grief to Healing, available on Amazon. It is my hope to help others, embrace and know this ability we all have. This saved me.
Many Blessings

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